Friday, October 29, 2010

Baja Ha Ha

THURSDAY

"Heaven, I'm in heaven ..." Pamela is crooning in the corner of the cockpit as we enjoy breakfast here in Bahia Tortuga (Turtle Bay), 360 miles south of San Diego on the west coast of Baja Mexico. We're having a BLAST! Everyone is well and happy, the boat is awesome, and tonight we are planning a party in our floating hot tub. SWEET! Following are notes from our delightful passage so far. Sending love to all –Betsy/Mom.

10/25

Dry. Boating.

The challenge: use these two words, truthfully, in a sentence.

Impossible. My experience is, they're just incongruous.

It rained all night prior to departure, and we listened for the telltale drip-drip-drip of previously unknown leaks. There are very few, but the deck and everything on it (still waiting to be stowed), is drenched. Ashore, the bathrooms have been cleaned (with a fire hose, it appears) and every surface is flooded. Then Pamela and I venture to top off the water tanks and the hose breaks loose, dancing wildy on the deck, saturating everything in its perimeter. By the time we start, I'm soaked. (Thankfully I have all my socks and thermals in ziplocks -- hey, this isn't my first rodeo.)

It's 3PM when we finally depart San Diego, missing the big Baja Haha parade and sendoff. But we're glad everything is finally stowed – from Apples to Zincs, you might say – our tanks are topped off, we have a new phone (for use with our temperamental satcoms) and we are ready!

10/26

Yesterday was dreary: lumpy seas with just not enough oomph in the breeze to thrust us through, so we wallowed south under grey skies.

But 24 hours into it, Pamela is dancing to the Black Eyed Peas ('I've Gotta Feeling'). Blue sky is breaking through, we've successfully made water and several meals, and the wind has built to 15-20 knots – just enough for TUGTUB (a very comfy Irwin 43) to push through the huge seas.

We've caught up with a few boats despite our late departure. There are various makes and models of vessels out here, all with their unique sail plans (jib and no main, full main and staysail, all sails set, or none ... ) to battle the lumbering seas that smack our beam as we course south.

As for TUGTUB, we're sailing under reefed-down genoa and main making about seven knots. It's rolly but at least predictable, and by now we know exactly when and where to brace ourselves as the boat heaves.

10/27

With every tick of latitude we drop, the pleasure meter climbs.

Today's the day we've been waiting for! This sun is shining. We set the kite. Take showers, and don t-shirts. Throw the fishing lines out. The seas have evened out and no-one is queasy or drowsy or experiencing any form of malaise. We are rolling lazily toward Bahia Tortuga, on Day Three of the Baja Haha.

Somehow you wish the first leg weren't the longest, but geographically that's impossible. We are doing great, but there has been a bit of carnage in the fleet overnight. Pamela sat patiently through the roll call listening to casualty reports, waiting to check in. We heard of a broken forestay and a dislocated hip, an issue with a stuffing box, and somehow, just three days out, an already depleted supply of diesel.

Now, after several ups and downs and variations on our sail plan (you can take the girl out of the racer but you can't take the racer out of the girl) we're motor-sailing in the waning sun: happy to have the engine on, as it means hot showers and cold beers when we arrive. Paul and Pamela are curled up in the 'love nest' aft; Dan is at the helm, listening to some unknown tunes; and I'm on the rail enjoying the last rays of warmth, and the vast beauty and serenity of the sea.

ADDENDUM

Pollywogs of light dance on the oily sea -- we're thankful for the three-quarter moon illuminating our landfall into Bahia Tortuga. Still it's daunting, and we compare the paper and electronic charts, the radar, the description in Charlie's Charts, and a hand-drawn map Holly scribbled out at a pizza parlor ... Picking our way through dozens of anchored boats (looking so much like the fake fireflies at Disneyland's Pirates of the Caribbean ride) we finally choose our spot, drop the anchor (and 225 feet of chain) and set. Pamela breaks out a bottle of chilled champagne, cheese and crackers (and subsequently, some wine ...) and we celebrate a very successful voyage!

After two days of fun here, we'll depart Saturday for Bahia Santa Maria, another 200-some miles along the coast. Over & out!


Oct 29

We bypassed the crowded palapas at the foot of the rickety pier (pocked with holes and rotting planks of arbitrary lengths, you must truly watch your step on the Bahia Tortuga wharf -- particularly on the way back to the boat, if you've imbibed in a few cervezas!) and instead wound our way to our favorite – Carlos y Mercedes -- on the east side of the calle principal (main drag). There, of course, we ran into people we know: Mike and Kelly Priest, Haha'ing aboard the Swan DEFIANCE. Mike tipped us off to the softball game about to begin, Kelly recommended the lobster burritos, and they took off.

Dan insisted on tequila for the crew, so we enjoyed a few shots and beer chasers, with our lunch; then picked our way through town (the entire place is like a construction site: all dirt strewn with rocks and cinder blocks, lumber, rebar, and other debris) to the ball park. Built in the 1960s, the stadium has been in disrepair for the last few decades. Mike, a professional delivery captain, transits through Turtle Bay several times a year, and found out about his friend Benito's renovation project ... so he rallied the Baja Haha fleet to bring gear, equipment and toys for the kids, AND challenge the locals to a game.

It was in full swing when we got there – a bit puzzled, as we tallied five 'outs' during the inning we arrived. The Grand Poohbah (Richard Spindler) pitched the entire game ... no-one was counting balls or strikes ... fouls caught by the pitcher weren't considered 'out' ... truly it was 'sandlot rules'. But the stadium was PACKED, ranchero music was blaring, vendors were selling beer and popsicles, and people were cheering and laughing. Pamela and I were rooting for the locals – mostly kids, in spanking new uniforms – as they clearly outdid our ragtag team. It was an absolute riot -- tons of fun -- and after the game, Richard and Dona handed out toys and equipment to a queue of eager children. How warming to see the Haha-ers give so generously to the community hosting us these few days.

Later we visited a small market to pick up eggs, beer, potatoes and boxed milk ... struggling with our rusty Spanish (sometimes blurting out the French equivalent: whoops!) to get the right stuff, then ventured back to the boat to make fresh pizza and watch the movie BORAT – projecting it onto a jury-rigged 'screen' made from a bedsheet lashed to the back of the bimini. This trip has brought me to a new level of decadence in sailing (I think they call it 'cruising' :-?) and a lot of JOY! This afternoon we'll add to the debauchery when we anchor off the beach party and deploy our floating hot tub ;-). Yes, we are having happy times on TUGTUB!!

PS – Hol, gave your regards to Ruben who came by with diesel this morning!

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Monday, October 25, 2010

the pre-party party

All the Baja Haha is a party (well except for the offshore sailing part) Here's our crew the night before departure (joined by Holly the Boat Fairy) L-R: Paul, Dan, Pamela, Holly, Betsy

Saturday, October 23, 2010

the saga continues ...

The boat was mounded with stuff above and below: boxes, tools, clothes, packaging, cushions, parts, food, wrappers, dog biscuits, lines ... every inch was covered with all sorts of junk. Paul sat in the middle of it all, smiling ear to ear. He and Pamela are the nicest people, and are thrilled (despite the normal what-the-heck-are-we-doing jitters) to be making their long-term cruising dream come true. I am just as thrilled to be joining them!

We leave San Diego Monday morning, for Turtle Bay ... after a day or two there we head to Bahia Santa Maria, and after a day or two there we continue south to Cabo San Lucas. We and 195 of our closest boat friends. I expect it to be a bit chaotic, a lot of fun, some great sailing experience for us all, and a bit crowded in the anchorages!

After Cabo, we'll turn left and head up to La Paz. That will be the sweetest part of the trip I think, when the air and water are warm and we can swim and snorkel in the Sea of Cortez! Look for me back at home around November 11...

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

“The cure for anything is salt water ..."

Since I’ve been house sitting Susan & Joel’s Newport Beach home (‘The Loveshack’) I had the unusual task of ‘commuting’ this morning back to Seal Beach – in the drowning rain, on slick streets packed with petrified fair-weather California drivers. Punching through the radio buttons annoyingly, I clicked on one station just as the deejay was speaking the words of Psalm 103:12, “He has removed our sins as far from us as the east is from the west ... Throwing our sins into the depths of the sea!” he added, paraphrasing Micah 7:19.

Wow! What a welcome reminder. I've been weighed down by this bad guy rap, and GLADLY I will say: it doesn’t fit. It doesn’t look good or feel good, and it is high time I shed that encumbering cloak once and for all. I don’t want it, nor the self-effacing, self-fulfilling prophecy it carries in its pockets. It is not who I am nor who I want to be.

“And I will forgive their wickedness, and I will never again remember their sins.”Hebrews 8:12. How awesome that we have a ‘forgive and forget’ God! But of course, this is God speaking. If only we mere mortals were as ... God-like (there’s really no other definition – it is so contrary to human nature). We cling to hurt and painful memories; afraid to forgive, loathe to forget. Hunched over in shame, we carry our guilt like heavy boulders taped to our backs. How sad.

I was reminded today that God’s greatness is bigger than our screw ups. GOD'S GREATNESS IS BIGGER THAN OUR SCREW UPS!! Every time. There is hope. “The LORD is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit.” says Psalm 34:18. I continue to pray this blessing on my friend.

Incredibly, God has chosen to send me on an all-expense paid vacation to La Paz, Mexico. (Well okay, I’ll be working plenty ... but still – it’s not Alcatraz.) While I'm more used to getting the 2 X 4 to the temple, or drop kicked to the end zone, this is an incredible blessing! I will be sailing with a really lovely couple, on a comfy boat with furniture and a galley and a portable hot tub; we will be traveling south to WARMER climes, on the ocean ... which heals me.

“The cure for anything is salt water - sweat, tears, or the sea” wrote Isak Dinesen (aka Karen Blixen). I am eager now to give the sea its turn.

ADDENDUM: DEFINITION OF AMNESTY

I am reminded of the definition of ‘amnesty’ – stemming from the Latin term amnēstia: ‘forgetting’. It means to overlook, or forget (a transgression); can also be used to define the period of time during which offenders can admit a crime without fear of prosecution; or, finally – refers to the actual act of liberating someone. Liberating. The term 'amnesty' evokes leniency, mercy, and compassion ...


Saturday, October 9, 2010

the power of love

This weekend I was lucky enough to hitch a ride on a two-day learn-to-sail cruise to Catalina.

The students were being taught hands-on sailing skills, so I was truly ‘deck fluff’ with absolutely nothing to do. Even before we left the dock Friday morning, I made a little nest in the forepeak and tucked away. In and out of slumber I could feel the boat start to heel as they set the sails ... the chop of the waves as the wind picked up ... and the boat settle down again when we entered the lee of the island. I deliciously lazed and lolled in the v-berth, listening to the water rush past the hull, and did absolutely positively nothing.

That evening, with the students ashore, another friend rowed up with a dinghy full of groceries: bread, salad greens, wine and bugs: Pacific lobsters. While the fat lobster tails steamed in beer and bread warmed in the oven, we made garlicky butter to dunk it all in. Fantastic. We reminisced about past trips and fancied new adventures. It is good to have friends who share your wanderlust (dangerous too, perhaps) to encourage, conspire, or just dream.

Saturday

Amidst a fitful chaos of dreams – you have strange dreams on a boat! – I remembered (unusually) a vivid scene: There were many of us traveling on a highway – boats, trucks, vans and campers – all on the same road (this is a dream, after all), through all kinds of weather, including a towering wall of snow. Then, at a rest stop, I saw an old friend and coworker, Bert.

Bert was a tall, older Southern gentleman who told corny jokes in his slow Tennessee drawl and was quite the dancer. He was always courteous, friendly, professional and neatly dressed. Now I have not seen Bert in over 20 years: but the smile was unmistakable. In my dream, when he saw me he rose up from his wheelchair(?), and I saw that his face was gaunt, and his baggy jeans held up by a belt cinched around his waist. We embraced, and even though he’d appeared thin and weak, I had to stretch to reach my arms around across his broad back, and he hugged me very tightly. Tears of joy flowed freely, and I was filled with an overwhelming sense of warmth and love. Then he vanished.

I woke up. Rarely do I remember dreams so acutely, and I was puzzled. I looked out through the hatch – thousands of stars were visible on the black sheet of the sky. I don’t know if Bert is still alive or has passed (we lost touch when I moved to California) but I treasured the ‘visit’ – and the reminder that the power of love can transcend miles ... ages ...and realms ... and it is more powerful than the sorrow, pain and disappointment that have been my recent companions. I felt the intense love in his presence, I was filled with joy, and my headache was gone.

I slept soundly until 8AM when the Harbor Patrol rapped on our hull to hurry us off our mooring can. The kids again took care of all the boat chores and I could barely pitch in to do a few dishes; mostly I lollygagged on deck enjoying a lovely sail. The perfect combination of warm sun and cool breeze hung with us the entire crossing. At one point a pod of Risso’s dolphins lumbered slowly by – 12 abreast, commanding the sea like a pack of Harleys taking up the whole freeway; a 'pod' of colorful kayaking children passed us too - their bright yellow paddles splayed every which way, and laughter ringing across the water.

What an incredible blessing these days have been; nurtured by friends, graced by the beauty of nature, and reminded of the infinite power of love.